Besides Being a Sign of Not Mature, These Are 5 Other Reasons You Must Stop Checking the Content of a Girlfriend s Cellphone
29 Oktober 2018 Nadya Zahra Prasetiya Relationship 278
Besides Being a Sign of Not Mature, These Are 5 Other Reasons You Must Stop Checking the Content of a Girlfriend s Cellphone Dating doesn't mean that you also have to share your privacy. In spite of being a boyfriend, then you can just open the contents of your boyfriend's cellphone without permission. You must be curious about who he contacted, what the contents of the chats are, but that isn't your right to know yet.

Likewise, the contents of your cellphone, your girlfriend should also not violate the privacy limit if you don't allow it. Often checking the contents of a girlfriend's cellphone can be an immature sign, this is why you have to stop the habit.

1. He was not comfortable if he was always suspected, checking the contents of the boyfriend's cellphone could make a fight

Curiosity that cannot be dammed can often make you desperate to check the contents of your girlfriend's cellphone without or with her knowledge. When your partner is proven to never mix with other people through chatting but you still keep checking the contents of his cellphone can make him upset if he is constantly suspected, he can feel unbelievable.

Even if he finally gets embarrassed and no longer lets you check the contents of his cellphone, surely you are angry and increasingly suspicious "if there is nothing, why can't you see it?" The more you suspect the more you are not calm. You only need to learn to trust and respect your personal space.

2. You have your own privacy space and respect your spouse's personal space as well

There must be a sense of disappointment from your boyfriend when you can't believe him, even though he has proven to be a variety, especially until the open messages of his social media. You are certainly not comfortable if he does the same thing. How can you trust him, if your privacy is still often you break through. Even though you are his girlfriend, it doesn't mean you have to know all the contents of the message, the email, the photo gallery, the social media direct messages.

You who often check your girlfriend's cellphone, can make your girlfriend uncomfortable, she feels you are limiting her movement and feel supervised because it feels like you are always in each of her private spaces. Surely your boyfriend often fights "ah don't be selfie with other people, so he will be angry if you open a gallery", "ah, let me balance my friend's chat with jutek, later the girlfriend gets angry again if I check my cellphone" I'm sorry!

3. Checking the contents of your partner's cellphone can be more suspicious and hurt, mending you don't need to know

When you find something that is not in line with your expectations and makes you hurt, surely you will be satisfied with your true suspicion. Even though only greeting old friends, for example, but you can get hurt because your girlfriend's language style is too familiar.

That's what makes you more suspicious because you always want to know what the next chat is. If you don't habitually check the contents of your cellphone, everything will be fine. It's better not to know all about hurts.

4. This can also cause addictive effects, once done so it will always be curious

Once you have the opportunity to check the contents of the cellphone and it is proven that there is nothing there, surely you will be more curious, because your suspicions are not answered. No wonder you become a habit of checking the contents of your girlfriend's mobile phone because the suspicions and negative thoughts that are made up are not proven.

Checking the contents of your girlfriend's cellphone can be addicted and become a bad habit for your relationship. When you fill your cellphone there is nothing you are still curious, then when your suspicion is proven you will be even more distrustful of your girlfriend. If it's still suspicious, why don't you take it home with all the cellphones?

5. No need to be afraid of being cheated, after all if he is cheating later it will also be revealed by itself

If you often check the contents of your mobile partner, you can't trust your partner fully, what are you looking for on your partner's handphone? What kind of evidence does he have? It is only your fears that are made up, everything that happens can come from our own minds, you know.

Even though I don't need to check the couple's cellphone to make the relationship run quietly. You who are afraid of being cheated until you violate privacy are clearly immature. Just believe, if your suspicion is true, it will also be strongest without you having to spy on your cellphone.

Not checking the contents of the pair's cellphone, the sign you are learning to believe it. Likewise on the contrary, when you are hobby of checking the contents of your cellphone, your sign partner does not trust him. Even though cellphone activity cannot guarantee he is cheating or not.

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